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# Practicing Self-Improvement in Daily Living

Xuefeng

May 7, 2010

 

“The closer a place is to you, the farther the journey seems;

The simplest melody requires the most rigorous training.”

 

To perfect the structure of LIFE, it is essential to avoid aiming too high or chasing unreachable ideals.

Self-improvement demands dedicated practice in every word and deed.

 

Let “Hello,” “I’m sorry,” and “Thank you” frequently grace your lips,

And keep humility, kindness, and integrity deeply rooted in your heart.

 

Do not act arbitrarily, indulge in selfishness, or engage in arguments and quarrels.

Instead, strive for understanding, patience, sincerity, and goodwill toward others.

 

Luxury, wastefulness, and arrogance will corrode and ruin your spirituality,

While simplicity, purity, and humility will yield boundless benefits.

 

When performing tasks, always pursue excellence.

The smaller the task, the more you should aim for the highest standard.

 

When speaking, ensure your words are meaningful and truthful.

Avoid empty talk, exaggeration, or self-deception.

 

The hardest mountains and rivers to overcome are those of ego and rigid opinions.

Pain and fear originate from attachment to self  and biased perceptions.

 

The simpler a matter seems, the more attention it deserves.

The people closest to you often influence the joys and sorrows of your life the most.

 

Do not seek shortcuts or covet petty gains.

Be honest, genuine, and steadfast in fulfilling your responsibilities.

 

When facing adversity, do not halt your progress.

Refrain from blaming the heavens or the earth, and let go of anger and resentment.

 

Jealousy and complaints are like cancer to the soul.

Only with an open and expansive heart can you step into vast and boundless realms.

 

Work diligently every day—trees grow into forests,

And small, consistent efforts will ultimately make you a sage.