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  • The Road Map to Heaven
  • Jesus is not the Greatest Creator
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  • Eight Criteria for Individual Freedom
  • Build Great Faith--Cultural Building of the Second Home Part 1
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  • Be Frank and Honest--Cultural Building of the Second Home Part 3
  • Freedom of Emotional Love and Sex Love——Cultural Building of the Second Home Part 4
  • Believe in and Rely on the Home—Cultural Building of the Second Home Part 5
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  • One Root can Give Birth to Thousands of Branches, Accept the one Root as the Fundamental
  • The Great Global Misunderstanding of Communism
  • Confucius Should Retire
  • The Application of Lao Tzu's Thought in the Management of the Second Home
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  • The Life Without Marriage
  • A Prayer for Chanyuan Celestials to Create Beautiful Dreams
  • The Second Home, How can I Repay You?
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  • Three Causes of Life’s Behavior
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  • Justice Can Never Defeat Evil
  • Do not Expect Stones to Become Watermelons
  • A Probe into the Relationship between Appearance and Quality
  • Seeking Confirmation: If It Is Not Helpful, then it Will Be Harmful
  • How Good are Universal Values
  • My Feelings on Flirting in the “Xanadu Fairy Friends" WeChat Group
  • Enlightenment Gained from Playing Poker “Struggling Upstream”
  • Eight Revelations Obtained from the Wuhan Pandemic
  • Judging Future Trends from Habits
  • Sexual Freedom is Primary Freedom and Ultimate Freedom
  • Where to Find a Bosom Friend
  • You Are Stingy without Giving Likes
  • People Mostly Are Rapists in the Wechat Groups
  • Life in the Crisis of the Pandemic
  • Do Not Regard Yourself as a Dish
  • Are you Puzzled by Form?
  • Xuefeng is a Fart
  • Live in the Future, Rather than in the Present
  • The Relationship Between Consciousness and Disease
  • No Complaints Make Sense
  • As People, we should not Pursue Justice and Fairness
  • Let Your Cognitive Building Collapse Completely
  • Testing One's LIFE level According to Their Love
  • Only Xuefeng-style Communism Can Solve These Problems
  • Is COVID-19 a Devil or an Angel?
  • A Messages for Future Chinese Leaders
  • Mismatching Talents and Positions are Wastes of Social Resources
  • Stumbling on the Details
  • A Cruel Energy Flow Diagram
  • Are You a Real Man?
  • Xuefeng’s Narcissism: I Must Look and Act as a Messenger of the Greatest Creator
  • To Cultivate One’s Mind Is to Polish a Brick into a Mirror
  • The Best Method of Self-cultivation is to Give up on Being Yourself
  • The Idea of "Be Yourself" is Nonsense
  • Conflicts Occur between Barbarism and Barbarism and between Barbarism and Civilization
  • Would it Be Good if People Could Treat Each Other a Way that is More Uncaring?
  • There Are No Limits to Goodness and Badness
  • Check and See if You Are on the Way to Heaven
  • Facts Are the Best Judges
  • Observe the Human Natures of the World and Understand the Way to Heaven
  • When Associating with Me, Do Not Tell Me About Your Troubles and Your Pain
  • You Can only Fulfill Your Mission in Life by Helping Others
  • How a Woman Will Conquer a Real Man
  • Another Mystery of Life
  • The Difference Between Tao and Path
  • Skip Over These Foot-Binding Cloth Rhetorics
  • The Revelation of Urgently Searching for a Toilet in a Dream
  • Understanding “Saint Has No Dreams” Through Experience of Urgently Searching for a Toilet in a Dream
  • Always Strengthen Your Foundation
  • Why "No Filial Child by a Long-Suffering Patient’s Sickbed"
  • Owning Nothing, Possessing Everything—A Life of Freedom
  • It's Great to Be Alive
  • Do You Have a Pillar of Stability?
  • Will you go Backwards to the Sunset or Face the Rising Sun?
  • The Panoramic Interpretation of An Ideal Life
  • Tolerance Equals Complicity
  • The Value and Significance of Division of Labor
  • Please Take A Look and See if You Are Yourself
  • Breaking Out of the Program Circles Set by Others
  • Take A Look at Whether You Have Any Value In Existence
  • Humans Create the Environment, the Environment Transforms Humans
  • Who Is Strangling China?
  • Message to the United Nations
  • Call for the US to Unconditionally Accept Illegal Border Crossers
  • Equality, Uniformity, Democracy Deviating from Civilization
  • Xuefeng, the Great Demon King, Is Spreading Deceitful Words Again
  • Eliminating Capitalists is a Nightmare for the Poor
  • The Eight Characteristics of a Masculine Man
  • Women Are Beautiful in Their Gentleness
  • How to Break Out of Your Cognitive Boundaries
  • Creating and Maintaining a Green Oasis
  • The Relationship Between Collective Subconscious and Individual Consciousness
  • The Way of Harmony with Others
  • Hello, Zimbabwe! Isn’t It Time for Reflection?
  • Keep Your Eyes Open to Observe the World, Close Your Eyes to Cultivate Strength
  • What Is the Ability to Respond to Changes in World Information? — Answering Yixian
  • Ninety-Nine Percent of People Deviate from Their Original Intentions
  • The Treasures of Chinese Culture: Characters, Music, and Landscape Paintings
  • Focus on a Single Goal for Life
  • The ABCs of Life
  • Plan Ahead for a Century, Act Before It’s Too Late
  • Do Not Lament Over Declining Industries
  • What is Free Comes from the Greatest Creator, What is Expensive Comes from the Devil
  • Are the People and Events Coming into Your Life Helping You Succeed?
  • The Greatest Responsibility for Losing Human Rights Lies with Oneself
  • The Hidden Demons in Chinese Culture
  • Mediocrity and Chaos: The Culprits Behind the Destruction of Genius
  • Take a Look at How Fortunate You Are
  • Life's 24 Treasures—How Many Do You Possess?
  • Unreturnable Hometown
  • Understanding the Force of Nature, Employing its Power
  • The Lesson from a Beggar
  • If You Don't Want to Get Married, Come to Lifechanyuan
  • Let's Start Learning to Speak
  • Different Sceneries Along Different Roads
  • The Structure of Human Existence Will Lead to Human Extinction
  • Look Up to the Stars While Standing in the Gutter
  • Rooted in the Way of Nature, Laughing at the Changing World
  • Great Matters Are Decided by Fate, Small Matters Are Decided by People
  • Should One Adhere To Being Oneself Or Give Up Being Oneself?
  • Lifechanyuan’s Solution to the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict
  • Will Hitting a Wall Lead to Enlightenment?
  • Mindset and Actions to Maintain in a Helpless State
  • The Three Pillars Preventing Human Extinction
  • The Necessity of Lifelong Learning and Education
  • How to Simplify and Lighten Life
  • Spiritual Aristocrats are the Hope of Humanity
  • Patterns and Realms Originate from Ideals
  • The Scope of Application of the Law of Positive and Negative Energy Summing to Zero
  • A Small Capitalist Discusses Xuefeng-style Communism
  • Those Who Argue About Reason Do Not Understand It
  • My Understanding of Happiness
  • Choose the Hardest Path
  • Confession of Lifechanyuan Guide 2024
  • People Without Goals Must Be Mediocre
  • Do Not Speak of Inner Suffering
  • The Merits of Colonization and the Benefits of Cultural Assimilation
  • Avoiding Collisions
  • Historical Records Cannot Be Entirely Trusted
  • Diagnosing Whether You Have a Mental Illness
  • The Path to Having 100 Wives or 100 Husbands
  • Revelations from Nearly 30 Moves
  • Humans Have No Choice
  • Critique of Rational Thinking
  • Why Not Allow Free Global Movement and Migration?
  • You Reap What You Sow
  • Effortlessly Solving Low-Dimensional Problems with High-Dimensional Solutions
  • The Powerful Will Not Have a Perfect Ending
  • Doubts About the Sanctity and Inviolability of Private Property
  • I’m a Little Envious of Trees
  • Forget Your Goal, and You’ll Sink into the Mire
  • Seeing Within from the Outside
  • The Value and Significance of Flow
  • The Value and Significance of Global Division of Labor and Collaboration
  • Reflections on Poverty
  • A Thousand Cuts Won’t Awaken People
  • True Feelings Everywhere Across the World
  • Those Who Argue Over Right and Wrong Are Mere Mortals
  • The Tragedy of Habitual Acceptance
  • Comprehending the Dao Through Life’s Details
  • Plant a Money Tree in Life
  • A Career That Never Faces Unemployment or Retirement
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Freedom of Emotional Love and Sex Love——Cultural Building of the Second Home Part 4

Xuefeng

Feb. 22, 2010

Emotional love is the precious gift endowed to mankind by the Greatest Creator, sex love is the highest order of game, as well as an effective initial approach to become a Buddhist believer, to gain enlightenment and reach the realm of Elysium. Fully enjoying emotional love and sex love accords the will of the Greatest Creator, and is a part of beautiful life that cannot be ignored and expropriated.

It is an important connotation of the culture building of the Second Home to ensure that everyone fully enjoys emotional love and sex love and protect everyone’s freedom to fully enjoy emotional and sex love. Any suppression or expropriation of this freedom is inhuman and goes against the will of the Greatest Creator.

There is no family, no marriage, and husband-wife relationship in the Second Home. Once inside the Second Home., everyone is free and is free from any bondage and shackles in the matter of emotional love and sex love. On the basis of mutual consent and within the code of civility, one will not be subject to any form of restraint and supervision in his or her emotional life and sex life. Anyone who attempts to limit and supervise other's freedom of emotional love and sex love has deviated the values of Chanyuan and will not be entitled to live in the Second Home.

No one should usurp or control others, no one should treat others as his or her private properties, no one should interfere in other's emotional love and sex love, no one should expropriate other's freedom of emotional love and sex love. In other fields of life, we should get rid of the consciousness of feudal autocracy, eliminate oppression and private ownership. In the field of spirit, soul, and flesh, we should also get rid of the consciousness of feudal autocracy, eliminate oppression and private ownership.

Jealousy indicates the ugliness of one's soul. Jealousy, complaints, resentment, and hatred manifested in emotional and sex love are the symbols of an ugly soul. It is morally criminal to restrict, control, monitor, supervise, and hinder other's freedom of emotional love and sex love out of jealousy.

In the Second Home, any form of emotional and sex love is free. One is free to live all by himself. Two people are free to live together faithfully and refrain from any emotional and sexual relations with any third person. One is also free to have more than one emotional and sexual partners. One is also free to have unlimited number of emotional and sexual partners. Everything goes on in accordance with one's own free will. This is private affair not public affair. The second home respects everyone’s will, personality, and hobbies. No one should impose his or her will and values upon others. Those who like bread should not limit other people’s like for noodles. Those who do not like apples should not forbid others to eat apples. The home encourages the blooming of all flowers, like the eight celestial beings that each display their own special skills in crossing the sea. The home provides the stage for the full and comprehensive blooming of gorgeous flowers of human characters.

For thousands of years in human history, as a result of erroneous consciousness of emotional love and sex love and artificial limitation, improper moral norms and commandments have been established in different countries, causing countless people to have been treated unfairly. Human character has been severely suppressed; the originally beautiful things have been messed up. Actually very simple things have been complicated, things that are pure and noble in nature have been treated as humble and dirty. What should have been a comedy turned out to be a tragedy. Such situations should not continue, the original purity and simplicity of things should be restored so that every one can fully enjoy the pleasure of emotional love and sex love, and everyone leads a happy, pleasant, free and blessed life. And this is an important part of our culture building.

Since man is still in the backward and ignorant state at present, in the situation of competition and struggle governed by the rule of jungles, and in the war of survival centering on the selfish possession of resources, we face severe challenge and difficulty in building a culture that makes sure everyone fully enjoys emotional and sex love. The road ahead is fraught with twists and turns and great risks. Without a firm will, one is likely to be swallowed up by the secular outlook on emotional love and sex love at any time. The wind and waves of the secular world may overturn our boat of new culture. However, the society is moving forward, people are awakening, and more and more people have realized that the traditional views on emotional love and sex love have caused great misfortune and pain to mankind, especially to individuals. We firmly believe that as long as we stick to our belief and as long as we are patient, the new culture of the Second Home. is bound to be widely accepted by people, a brand-new way of life will bring happiness and light to mankind, and the Lifechanyuan era surely come to us.

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