How to Get Along With Each Other in Lifechanyuan

Xuefeng

December 22, 2009

All Chanyuan Celestials have obtained life visas and are the loyal disciples of Jesus Christ, Buddha Shakyamuni, Celestial LaoTzu, Prophet Muhammed (PBUH), relatives of Xuefeng - the tour guide of Lifechanyuan, and blessed children of the Greatest Creator. The relationships between Chanyuan celestials are as brothers, sisters, relatives, and lovers.

All Chanyuan-Celestials must love, care for, encourage, and forgive each other. They share common beliefs, common values, common hobbies, and a common future; among these are having no conflicts of interest, no differences of nobility and lowliness, no quarreling or fighting, and no irreconcilable contradictions.

The excellent qualities of Chanyuan celestials should be reflected first in their relationships with each other. Those who care for and love their brothers and sisters are walking on the Way of the Greatest Creator, adhering to Lifechanyuan values, and respecting the guide. Similarly, those who hurt their brothers and sisters of Lifechanyuan are deviating from the way of the Greatest Creator, abandoning our values, and hurting the guide.

• When brothers and sisters encounter difficulties, we must do our best to help them by never turning a blind eye or a deaf ear to them. We must share weal and woe together, and when they are unhappy, we must never gloat or ridicule them, but make them feel loved with warm and passionate words, enlighten them with wise words, let them know that they are not alone, and that we are all with them and care about them.

• When a brother or sister makes a mistake, we must rally together, not to criticize or bludgeon them, but rather to forgive them and help them to realize their mistake through the salutary influence of education; in the case of their failing to realize their mistake, we must wait patiently and give them opportunities to resolve their issue.

• If a brother or sister commits a crime unintentionally, no one should ever discriminate, ignore, despise, or monitor them, but forgive them; as long as they remain in our homeland, we must still care for and help them. We use only love to transform them.

• When brothers and sisters are in poor health, we must give them special life care including the best food in the home, and let them have enough rest, offer more warm and encouraging words to them, and give them all the conveniences they need.

• When brothers and sisters have special interests or hobbies, we must not deprive them, but respect and encourage them, not restrain them, but understand them, and not deflate or attack them with any excuses, but do our best to support their interests.

• When brothers and sisters say wrong things accidentally or even hurt another one intentionally, no one should ever attempt a tit-for-tat or combat poison with poison, but forgive them and treat them with an open mind and an open heart.

• When we encounter disputes and conflicts among ourselves, we must never tie our feelings in knots, nurse our grievances, be indifferent to each other, or hold grudges as strangers. We must learn to forgive.

• We must never speak words that are insulting, hurtful, caustic, offensive, or undue, but rather ones that are lovable, cozy, humorous, sweet, and tender towards each other; we must never plant thistles and thorns within our own spiritual gardens.

• When we chat with each other, we must never discuss the mistakes of others; in this homeland, no matter what, where, or under what circumstances we talk, we must always avoid talking about the wrongdoings of other brothers and sisters as much as possible and must never sprinkle salt on their wounds or pour oil on their sparks, but always respect the dignity of everyone and fully protect their privacy.

• Do not guard against, monitor, supervise, or track and investigate your brothers and sisters, do not speculate in your own heart about their thoughts and feelings, do not compete with them for anything, and do not argue, scold, or beat them, and do not “take them to court”.

• We would rather be bullied or hurt by our own brothers and sisters than bully or hurt them; we would rather believe them absolutely than doubt them at all; in any difficult or hard situation, we should surrender our way of life to any of them and leave death to ourselves.

Chanyuan celestials are virtuous people who are free from vulgar tastes, extraordinary people with open minds, people who are going to Heaven without nostalgia for the mortal world, people who understand the value and meaning of human life and treat their life journey with a game spirit, people who know the secrets of life and understand the priority of life so as to improve and perfect their non-material structures until they finally achieve the status of Celestial beings. There is nothing that we cannot understand and nothing that we cannot make allowances for and forgive, especially for our own brothers and sisters; there is nothing that we cannot pardon.

All Chanyuan celestials are relatives of Xuefeng and I will be glad when you love, care for, and get along well with each other; I will be sad if you hurt, dispute with, or estrange each other. Let us follow firmly the way of the Greatest Creator as guided by Jesus Christ, Buddha Sakyamuni, Celestial LaoTzu, Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), and the great leader, Mao Zedong; let us make unremittting and unswerving efforts to climb to the highest levels of life and LIFE; let us march together happily, joyfully, and harmoniously to the Celestial Islands Continent!