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  • A New Life Mode! The Paradise Home without Marriage&Family and Shared Resources--The Second Home
  • The New Life Mode of Human Being Has Come into Being
  • Eight Characteristics of the Communist Community, the Second Home Created by Lifechanyuan
  • An Introduction to the New Life of Human Beings - Home without Marriage and Family
  • The Second Home—the New Life Pattern of Mankind is Stunningly Wonderful
  • The Advantages of the Second Home Over Traditional Family
  • The Contents of Copies of Life in the Thousand-year World
  • Paradise Management: Replace Management with Service
  • The Second Home's Holographic management Briefing
  • The Mode of the New Oasis for Life will Solve Twenty-one Difficulties that Mankind is Facing
  • The Problem of Providing for the Elderly, Has Finally Been Solved Satisfactorily
  • Eighteen Details of Caring for the Elderly in the New Oasis for Life
  • What That Benefits That You Can Have in the Xuefeng-style Communist Society?
  • What Can Be Avoided by Living in the Second Home?
  • The Most Beautiful Life is Here
  • Embrace the New Life of the Second Home
  • Modernized Streamline Production and the Life Pattern of the Second Home
  • Utopia and the Home without marriage and Family
  • The Second Home Where no one Pockets Anything Found on the Ground and Doors are not Bolted at Night
  • 80 FAQs Concerning the Home Without Marriage and Family (1)
  • 80 FAQs Concerning the Home Without Marriage and Family (2)
  • 80 FAQs Concerning the Home Without Marriage and Family (3)
  • 80 FAQs Concerning the Home Without Marriage and Family (4)
  • A Beautiful and Harmonious Xanadu-Series of the Bright Spots(1)
  • The Most Important Task is to “Perfect one’s Soul Garden”—Series of the Bright Spots (2)
  • Paradise Management—Series of the Bright Spots (3)
  • Walk on the Way of Nature, Love all Life Beings – Series of the Bright Spots (4)
  • The Largest Ecovillage in China—Series of the Bright Spots (5)
  • The Elderly and Children Are Taken Care by the Community—Series of the Bright Spots (6)
  • Illnesses are Decreasing and Crimes are Disappearing—Series of the Bright Spots (7)
  • Chasing for the Best Quality of Work—Series of the Bright Spots (8)
  • Everyone Must be a Worker—Series of the Bright Spots (9)
  • Ladies Shall be Firstly Respected—Series of the Bright Spots (10)
  • Monthly Parties — Series of the Bright Spots (11)
  • The Value Study and Life Meeting –Series of the Bright Spots (12)
  • The Division of Labor and Serving Each Other – Series of the Bright Spots (13)
  • No one would pocket anything found on the ground, and doors are not bolted at night–Bright Spots(14)
  • Everyone Tries to Their Best Ability and Takes What they Need Freely — Bright Spots (15)
  • No classes, No Difference Between Urban&Rural Areas, Physical&Mental Work, Workers&Peasants (16)
  • Minimizing the Consumption of Natural Resources—Series of the Bright Spots (17)
  • Everything is Transparent and Members Have Full Freedom To Leave — Series of the Bright Spots (18)
  • There are No Offices and Few Meetings — Series of the Bright Spots (19)
  • The Pursuit of Substantial Results and Not to Engage in Formalism—Series of the Bright Spots (20)
  • Respect the Facts and Tell the Truth -Series of the Bright Spots (21)
  • Everyone Here is a Thoughtful University Student – Series of the Bright Spots (22)
  • Celebrating the Twelfth Anniversary of Xuefeng-style Communism
  • Humanity's Most Ideal Life Has Been Born on Earth for Over a Decade
  • What Has the Practice of the Second Home Proved
  • Xuefeng-style Communism - the Highest State of Life
  • Communism Has Been Fully Realized Here
  • Only Xuefeng-style Communism Can Solve These Problems
  • Only Communism Can Save Mankind
  • The Great Global Misunderstanding of Communism
  • A Huge Misunderstanding to Believe That a Communist Society Means Wife-Sharing
  • Walking toward Xuefeng-style Communism
  • Communism is the only Way to Happiness For the Toiling Masses
  • The Future of Humanity: Xuefeng-style Communism
  • The Way of the Poor
  • The Source of the Suffering of the Poor and the Way to their Liberation
  • Simple, Economical, Firm ——The Three Character Primer for the Second Home
  • Build Great Faith--Cultural Building of the Second Home Part 1
  • Be Always Grateful--Cultural Building of the Second Home Part 2
  • Be Frank and Honest--Cultural Building of the Second Home Part 3
  • Freedom of Emotional Love and Sex Love——Cultural Building of the Second Home Part 4
  • Believe in and Rely on the Home—Cultural Building of the Second Home Part 5
  • Eliminate Greed, Corruption, Laziness, Extravagance and Selfishness
  • Stick to the Way of Nature--Cultural Building of the Second Home Part 7
  • One Root can Give Birth to Thousands of Branches, Accept the one Root as the Fundamental
  • Daily Prayer for Celestials Settling in the Second Home
  • The Codes of Behavior for Citizens in the Kingdom of the Greatest Creator
  • Laziness is a big enemy of Home without Marriage and Family
  • Laborers are Most Respected here
  • People in the Second Home Shall Dance with Dawn
  • The Golden Key to Open the Door of Happiness of the Second Home
  • The Application of Lao Tzu's Thought in the Management of the Second Home
  • The New Oasis for LIFE does not Value Rarities
  • The Way to Protect the Health of Sisters and Brothers in the Second Home
  • Twenty-eight Activities That Are Not Allowed in Lifechanyuan
  • The Second Home Does Not Take the Road of Reverting to Ancient Civilizations
  • A Good Upbringing and Self-Cultivation & Self-Restraint are Required in the Second Home
  • A Poem about Civil Behaviors of Chanyuan Celestials Residing in the Second Home
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Ladies Shall be Firstly Respected—Series of the Bright Spots (10)

Written by Yixian on January 24, 2014

Women have been suffering discrimination for thousands of years, and their positions are quite low in both marriage and society. Although the development of society has raised the value of women, within marriage, traditional families, and society, they still belong to a disadvantaged group and their values are not acknowledged. Their dignity has been denied and their safety is still not guaranteed, and this can be proven by the amounts of domestic violence and sexual abuse.

There have been many women living in the Second Home, the middle-aged are the majority, who have shown that women are awakening and they are not willing to be ruled and discriminated against. Instead, they want to lead dignified, meaningful, and free lives.

In the Second Home, we have implement the value that, “the positions of men and women are reversed and women should be firstly respected”. The rights, safety, and dignity of women are fully guaranteed. You cannot see women being bullied or discriminated against, and there are no more heavy household chores for women, but they can put their talents into full play. Each woman has her own space which is free from disturbance and it is unnecessary to lock her door at any time because nobody is allowed to enter into a woman’s room without her permission, and nobody dares to sexually harass a woman. Besides, there are no “leaders” who will impose their will on women and all things are done voluntarily. Women do not need to worry about the care of seniors or the education of children because the community takes full responsibility for those chores. There are no more conflicts between women and mothers-in-law or sisters-in-law. On the contrary, they have many close sisters with whom to chat, play, study, and work.

In Lifechanyuan, women should be firstly respected in all situations. Women are the lotuses, and men are the green leaves.

  1. Men are not allowed to contend with women.

  2. Men should be willing to and be brave enough to sacrifice for women.

  3. It is fine for women to seduce men, but men are not allowed to sexually harass women.

  4. Under any dangerous circumstances, men should be in front to protect women.

  5. Women take precedence over men in the matter of enjoyment.

  6. Men shall take the initiative in doing heavy and dirty tasks, while light and clean work shall be reserved for women.

  7. Men are not permitted to humiliate, desecrate, abuse, beat, maltreat, persecute, scorn, or deride women.

  8. Men are not permitted to limit women’s personal freedoms in the name of love, physically or spiritually.

Experience has shown that having the value that “women should be firstly respected”, all female members feel very happy and safe, and almost none of them are willing to go back to their traditional lives.

The community also becomes more harmonious this way, because women are naturally more quiet and peaceful, and they like harmony and serenity. They are naturally kind and loving with soft and big hearts.

Women are firstly respected means that men are not allowed to seduce women in this community. In the aspect of sexuality, women have the great freedom of being able to take the initiative, which is good to foster their independence, and will eventually be helpful for their spiritual development and sublimation.

Women are firstly respected also means that men are passive in love. This is good for men to cultivate their personalities. “Butterfly will come when the flower scents”. It is only when a man is becoming perfect and he brings happiness and joy to women that his appearance becomes enjoyable, and therefore welcomed by all women.

As a woman in the Second Home, I often have the feeling of being cared for and loved. I feel very blessed.

In fact, when a women feels happy, men will be happy too.

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